Lessons & Healing

One of the kindest things we can do for someone who has opened up to us and talked about how they are doing is to let them discuss and acknowledge their feelings. To hold space for someone without imparting our own experiences on to them and trying to tell them what they should do.

Your true nature is luminous

People who tell us we have to let go and move on have no idea how hurtful and damaging this can be to someone who is experiencing pain, anxiety and grief.

We are not ready yet to move on. The pain is very real, we are raw and vulnerable.

Other people don’t get to impose their timelines onto us. We will heal in our own time and it’s not a linear process.

I had this happen quite recently. I almost argued with a friend who told me I have to move on because in their words “the only person you are hurting is yourself”.

I know I have to move on, please let me live and learn from my lessons. I need to understand my journey, not be pressured by others to heal in a timeframe they think is suitable. Don’t force me to run when I have only just started walking again.

With loving kindness

Published by rleball

Hip Hop Lover. Original Junglist. Mental Health Advocate.

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